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17 simple ways to improve your life right NOW

chanman · Jan 27, 2017 · 1 Comment

1. Sing and dance when you get up

Yes seriously.

Your mood in your morning routine will carry over to the rest of your day. It’s not rocket science. Make your mood as positive and upbeat as you can. Challenges you face during the day are so much easier to deal with a positive frame of mind.

It doesn’t matter what you play. Just make it something you LOVE singing along to.

For me, I love listening to Cold Chisel’s Khe Sanh and Bruno Mars Locked out of Heaven.

2. Make your bed

This one was popularised by a famous recent commencement speech by Admiral William H. McRaven to the University of Texas.

He says it’s a small win that takes no effort. It gives you early momentum in your day. Even if you go on to have a shitty day, at least you’ll come back home to a nicely made bed. Watch the below from 4.40 to hear this tip.

Tim Ferriss also mentions making your bed in Tools of Titans. Try it for a week.

3. Drink more water

If your pee is dark yellow or worse, then you’re dehydrated. Dehydration affects cognitive ability. It also makes your skin dry and less elastic. Meaning you look tired and older. Drink at least one pint of water on waking up. Two pints is preferable. You’ll feel great and have way more energy throughout the day.

4. Smile all the time

The mind affects the body and the body affects the mind. The physical act of smiling makes you feel better. It releases endorphins and makes you feel happier. Smiling is free and makes you more likeable. Why wouldn’t you smile more?

To get the full benefits, make it a full smile. Feel your eyes crinkle and your facial muscles fully contract.

5. Stand tall more

Like the previous point, the body affects the mind.

Amy Cuddy shows that standing victorious releases testosterone and makes us feel confident. Do the power poses whenever you can throughout the day. I recommend on waking and whenever you go to the toilet.

6. Listen to podcasts

Podcasts open you up to people playing at a higher level than you. Check out this post of my favourite podcasts of 2016.

7. Go for short runs

You don’t need to go on 40 min 5 mile runs to get the benefit of running. Just 2 mile runs, 4-5 times a week is enough to help you lose weight and feel fitter. It means you put less pressure on yourself to get your kit on and start running, meaning you’re less likely to dread the run itself. Check out this post on increasing your Vo2 MAX.

8. Lift heavier

You need to exert yourself at the gym. Strain a bit to push out that rep. Strain the sinews. Lifting heavier improves muscle tone and strength. It improves bone density and prevent osteoporosis. Read this great article by Henry Rollins on why he loves the iron.

Do the 5×5 programme or Victor Pride’s Body of a Spartan programme.

9. Hug and kiss everyday

Hugging and kissing releases oxytocin. This is the Love hormone and it makes you feel warm and fuzzy. It creates and nurtures bonds between humans.Do this every day.

Check out this James Altucher article: 10 Unusual Ways to Release Oxytocin Into Your Life

10. Read more

Education doesn’t stop with school. You’ve got to invest in yourself with lifelong learning. Some of the most successful people in the world read a book a week. Think about that: 52 books a year.

Some prodigious readers (with reading lists) are:

Bill Gates Gates Notes

Nat Eliason

James Clear

Ryan Holiday

If you’re not a big reader at the moment, just aim for one book a month. Based on a 300 page book, that’s about 10 pages a day. That should take less than 15 mins a day. Read on the toilet, on your commute, on your lunch break. Make it a habit and reap the rewards.

11. Have the difficult conversations

I can’t remember exactly where I read this one but it’s stuck with me. Your success in life is directly correlated with the number of difficult conversations you’re willing to have. Think about it. Difficult conversations include asking for a raise, beginning a relationship, getting engaged. If you avoid them, you’re heading towards comfortable mediocrity.

Think about conversations you’re putting off. The discomfort is the sign that you’ve got to deal with it. Summon up the courage and initiate the conversation. Start with, “This isn’t easy for me say but….”.

You’ll progress so much faster.

12. Call your loved ones everyday

I do this every day. It doesn’t have to be a long call. Just ask about their day and what they ate for dinner. They’ll appreciate it and you’ll feel good. A daily quick win.

13. Lose excess weight

By definition, ‘excess’ weight is unnecessary, surplus and superfluous. You don’t need it. It is literally weighing you down. Excess weight also makes you less attractive. Lose the excess weight.

It’s not easy but it’s not that hard either.

Cut out your carbs, eat more protein, eat more veg. Don’t drink unnecessary calories.

Do some cardio like running everyday.

14. Work towards a goal everyday

You need a mission. Something to work towards. It might be writing a book. Or making more money. Or creating art. Or looking after your family.

Whatever it is, you should do something each day that furthers that goal. You’ll be satisfied each night before you go to bed that you at least did something.

15. Get rid of unused and unwanted possessions

Your possession end up owning you.

Look at the pile of CDs and DVDs you never use. Look at all the clutter of things you’ve had for years but never use.

Explore minimalism:

The Minimalists

16. Clear your wardrobe

You probably wear less than 20% of your wardrobe. The rest are possessions you’ve accumulated and never wear. Just get rid of the stuff you don’t wear.

17. Save more money

You can always save more money. Instead of spending your paycheck and saving what’s left at the end of the month, try saving first after you receive your paycheck, then spending what you’ve budgeted for after saving.

Let me know which of these you’re going to implement in the comments below!

Have I missed anything? Let me know!

 

Tom Bihn Synapse 19 review – hint it’s my favourite ever bag

chanman · Dec 30, 2016 · 2 Comments

On Christmas morning, totally unexpectedly, I received a beautifully wrapped box.

Under the paper was a brown cardboard box that I thought was an Amazon box….

It turned out to be have the Tom Bihn logo on it…..and I squealed like a girl.

BEST. PRESENT. EVER.

I’d been pining after a Tom Bihn Synapse for ages now.

Much to Angelique’s annoyance.

It is not cheap, so despite my fetish for all things luggage and bag-related, I’d held off buying one.

Now, it was mine.

I first heard about it from a Gear post by Tynan. Tynan is a former PUA and now entrepreneur who writes insanely popular gear posts about how to pack for minimal, long-term travel. (He used to favour the Tim Bihn Synapse but now he favours Minaal.)

(Here’s a link to Tynan’s 2017 gear post)
(Here’s a link to Tynan’s 2015 gear post which is the last one he posted which lists the Tom Bihn Synapse backpack)

The thing that fired my imagination and my lust for it was the fact that Tynan did long-term travel ie. months at a time with just this bag. 19L. 19 Liters!! It must have been a great bag to be able to fit and organise everything you’d need for that style of travel.

So anyway, back to Christmas…

I’ve never been more surprised (in a positive way) by a present.

Here’s a photo of it:

First impressions

1) The material feels tough and durable. I know it’s durable because in a stroke of genius marketing, the company has posted a video of them testing its durability.

2) The zips are super strong. They are YKK like most zips but the zipping action itself is slow and feels harder to pull in either direction. This might seem odd but this does mean that they won’t open unexpectedly. Even if the zip is half done up, it won’t pull open under the weight of the pocket’s contents.

3) There’s loads of pockets! 6 in total:

  • 1 x large main compartment with a partition
  • 2 x central top front pockets
  • 2 x front side pockets
  • 1 x bottom central pocket

4) It just feels beautifully made. It has that feeling of quality.

5) It’s spacious. It easily fits my Macbook Pro 13″. I haven’t tried to stuff it to the max but this photo from Tom Bihn gives you some idea of the potential:

Tom Bihn Synapse 19
Tom Bihn Synapse 19 – potential stuffing capability – from the Tom Bihn website

 

Possible negatives

I would like there to be a small zip pocket on the inside of the bag for coins or keys or tiny items like USB flash drives and passports. This would mean easier access to these items and mean not digging around in the larger pockets/compartments for these.

Overall

I LOVE it!! It’s pricey, but then again, I didn’t pay for it. Some things just cost more and it’s worth paying the premium (like Apple products).

It’s definitely the right size for me. The 25L would have been too big to be my EDC.

Any questions at all, let me know in the comments!

Further reading

Check out the Tom Bihn Synapse 19 bag here as well as the awesome Tom Bihn site here.

For more on how to pack for minimal long-term travel:

Minimalist Travel Gear Packing List: Insanely Light Luggage Edition

How to Pack Light: The Complete Guide to Ultralight, Minimalist Travel

 

My 4 favourite podcasts of 2016

chanman · Dec 21, 2016 · 1 Comment

I love podcasts because they’re a way to elevate the quality of the company you keep.

They say that you’re the average of the 5 people you spend most of your time with, so this is a way to get some wisdom from people who are further down the road from you.

1) Jocko Podcast

I first heard about Jocko from Tim Ferriss’s incredible new book Tools of Titans. The book is the distillation of the wisdom from Tim’s smash hit podcast where he interviews the great and the good from a huge range of fields, from Arnold Schwarzenegger to Peter Thiel to Matt Mullenweg to Jocko Willink.

Jocko is a former Navy Seal who commanded the most-decorated task special operations task force of the Iraq War.

On the podcast, his voice is the first thing you notice. It’s deep and forceful. Maybe it came from his OCS days where the candidates had to ‘go ballistic’ i.e. shout everything they said.

He talks about leadership, military issues and most interestingly, he, with his co-host Echo Charles, answer questions from listeners.

Echo Charles is a great co-host. The banter is great and the respect they have for each other shines through.

They take the show and the answers to the questions seriously. What I love most is that they really want to help and care about providing value to their listeners.

Recommended episodes:

52: HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR. HOW TO COMBAT BURNOUT. VIOLATING VALUES TO ACHIEVE GOALS. HOW TO FOLLOW THROUGH W/ IDEAS.

49: HOW TO SMASH DAYS WHEN YOU ‘DON’T FEEL LIKE IT’, HOW TO DEAL W/ PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE PEOPLE, ADVICE FOR SOF NEWLYWEDS

 

2) Smart Passive Income

Pat Flynn is the real deal. He’s an internet marketer entrepreneur who truly wants to help his readers and his listeners. The level of detail he gives is incredible. Whether it’s about building niche sites, starting a podcast, affiliate marketing or email marketing, he creates the best content.

His authority is proven by his transparency. Pat publishes his income statements each month and it’s into the 6 figures.

Recommended episodes:

So many! Here’s a flavour:

SPI 243: How to Create Your Life Vision Plan with Michael Hyatt

SPI 241: My Top 10 Most-Used Apps in 2016

SPI 232: How Lucas Hall Built and Sold an “Ultimate Resource” Blog

SPI 214: How to Master Content Marketing with Neil Patel

 

3) Freedom Fastlane Podcast

Ryan Daniel Moran is a serial internet marketer and entrepreneur. I first heard of him on one of Pat Flynn’s podcast episodes on building a $1m Amazon business (SPI 144: Building a Million Dollar Business in 12 Months with Ryan Moran). I was blown away by his clarity of thought.

Listening to his own podcasts on Freedom Fastlane, you quickly get a sense of his drive and the scale of his ambitions (he wants to own the Cleveland Indians and I’m sure he’ll do so one day).

Recommended episodes:

Jesse Itzler: Founder Of Marquis Jet, Overcoming Mental Limits, And Marrying A Billionaire

Tai Lopez: Why Most Entrepreneurs Suck… PLUS… How To Build A Huge Audience, Solve Problems, And Get Paid To Do What You Love

4) Tim Ferriss Podcast

I’ve left the big one till last. Tim’s podcast is the biggest podcast in the world. I love the interviewees he gets on the show. The only thing I wish would be different would be that the episodes were shorter. Often they’re over 3 hours long. Thankfully, Tim has really detailed shownotes.

He’s also released a ‘playbook’ of the condensed and curated wisdom of his guests. It’s DENSE and packed with so much gold. Get this book! Tools of Titans by Tim Ferriss

Recommended episodes:

http://fourhourworkweek.com/2016/10/27/david-heinemeier-hansson/

Tony Robbins on Morning Routines, Peak Performance, and Mastering Money

http://fourhourworkweek.com/2016/06/27/shay-carl/

 

Let me know your favourite podcasts and why in the comments below!

An unexpected reminder that all that matters is love

chanman · Jul 3, 2016 · Leave a Comment

Every year on the 2nd of July, my family meets in Epsom to spend the day together to remember my mum who died on this day in 2011.

Yesterday, we met at the church for a mass. As usual, it took me a while to get into the spirit of remembering. I’m always fidgeting in church and unable to concentrate. I’m always distracted and thinking of mischief.

It wasn’t until we got down to the hospice that I remembered.

The Princess Alice Hospice in Esher is an incredible institution.

They gave my mum dignity and kindness in her last days, making sure that she was cared for.

We went into the hospice chapel and I picked up the book of messages.

People write messages in this book for their loved ones who are dying or that have died.

The writing in this book is so raw. So real.

There’s no filter. No worry about other people reading them.

People write how much they miss someone. How they hope there’s no pain anymore.

How they can’t forget someone.

Reading these jolted me back into the present.

It reminded me of a great post by Mike Cernovich on Danger and Play (here), where he writes about the proper response to mass shootings (this was after Orlando).

The first thing to note is that you never know when you might be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

You never know when you might be a victim of a mass shooting.

Cernovich says that you should be ready.

Tell your loved ones that you love them. Be ready for death.

I was reminded of this when I read those messages.

I told my family afterwards that I loved them and that they meant so much to me.

I felt lighter and better.

Do it now. Tell your loved ones that you love them.

Be ready for death.

All that matters is love.

Defeating anxiety and stress

chanman · May 29, 2016 · 1 Comment

anxiety

I’m an anxious person.

I’m a happy person but I can also be an anxious person.

Those who know me, know that I have OCD as well as general worry about things.

My OCD is pretty standard as things go.

I have a routine upon leaving the house.

I check the balcony door is locked. I check the hob. I check the taps are shut off in the kitchen.

I turn off all power sockets.

I check that the shower is off. I check that the bathroom taps are shut off.

Then I get to the front door.

I check this is locked by pushing the door 30 times.

This must sound utterly insane to someone who has no OCD tendencies.

And it is.

I know it’s crazy but still I do it.

Why do I continue to do it?

Because it gives me reassurance that it’s done.

I’ve been down the street before and come back to the house to check that I’d turned the hob off.

In case it was on and the flat burned down.

How does this make me feel?

Like I have a mental problem.

I feel powerless and frustrated that I can’t control my thoughts.

That my irrational fears are in control of me.

The routine helps me get on with my day.

With the routine done properly, I’m able to trust that it’s done and everything is squared away.

I know that when I’ve done it, that my house isn’t going to burn down, get burgled, or get flooded.

Insane I know. But it helps me get on with living.

It isn’t at the point where it’s life debilitating.

I’m a functioning member of society.

I can work.

I have great friends and family.

I can work on projects like this blog.

I can have a great time doing things I love.

But I know that I’d love to go through life without this worry.

In practical terms, it wastes my time and my mental energy.

It disempowers me.

When people try to ‘cure’, I can rationalise it.

But it’s an irrational urge.

The thoughts keep pushing their way into my mind.

To the point where I can’t concentrate on anything else.

So I get to the point where I think that my routine is a small price to pay for being able to get on with my day.

A small price, but a price all the same.

I know it’s not ideal.

Why am I writing about this?

Because anxiety is an epidemic crippling people’s mental well-being

If I can help just a bit, then writing this will be more than worth it.

So many people I know have anxiety to the point where they recognise they have it and they believe that’s it’s affecting their happiness.

And often more.

I won’t go into names because that wouldn’t be right.

One thing they’ve all got in common is that from the outside, they’ve got it together.

They’re generally extroverts who are sociable, likeable and fun to be around.

People think they’re confident alpha-types.

And they are.

But they’re also battling with worry and anxiety.

Things like have they offended someone? Are they being judged?

I thought a lot about how to get rid or at least reduce anxiety particularly when five people I knew told me about their anxiety.

I recommended to one person to concentrate on pulling levers.

Pulling levers

Stress and anxiety can be exacerbated by excess cortisol in the body.

Cortisol is the stress hormone.

It has an evolutionary purpose. It prepares the body for fight or flight.

It’s incredibly useful for life and death situations much like adrenaline.

However, it’s supposed to leave the body a short time after it’s produced.

When it doesn’t, that’s when we started seeing problems.

In today’s world, we see people suffering from long-term, low levels of constant cortisol.

This is the source of stress.

We’re not supposed to be stressed and anxious all the time.

Stress makes us depressed.

It makes us fat and unhappy.

Stress is literally killing us.

If cortisol is responsible for making us stressed, then it makes sense to reduce the levels of cortisol in our systems.

Pulling levers is a broad brush term I use for actions that reduce cortisol.

Get enough sleep.

Sleep is huge. Think about it this way. If you slept 5 hours a night for a month, you would be more susceptible to stress and anxiety.

In men, the opposite of cortisol is testosterone.

Testosterone is only produced by the body at night time during sleep.

If you sleep less, then you produce less of cortisol’s nemesis and you’ll be a walking cortisol factory.

Eat enough

Dieting is stressful.

When you restrict calories, you become unhappier.

If you’re down and depressed, then dieting is the last thing you should do.

Eat carbohydrates.

Pasta, noodles, rice, potatoes, bread.

These are nature’s comfort foods.

They may make you fatter in large amounts but you will be happier.

Lift heavy

I started lifting heavy in January 2016.

It’s been the best change I’ve made ever.

One reason is it flushes out cortisol.

It releases endorphins and testosterone.

The deadlift and the squat feel incredible.

After a good session, I sleep like a baby.

Have sex

Sex releases oxytocin, the kissing hormone.

You know that relaxing, soothing feeling when you’re hugging someone, kissing someone, having sex, that’s the oxytocin.

It makes you feel good. So do more of it.

Get out of your head

Too often we live too much in our own heads.

We forget about the body and how linked the mind and body are.

If you’re stressing about something at work or about whether you turned off the hob, then you’re in your head and not in your body.

You’re not grounded.

Your mind is running away from you.

How do we get out of our heads.

Do bodily things.

Do 100 pushups.

Run on the spot.

Be mindful. Feel your body. What are you touching? What are you looking at? What can you smell?

Concentrate on something you can see.

Keep doing these exercises and you’ll see a difference.

It might not rid you of all anxiety and stress but it will reduce it.

Let me know if these work for you or if you have any other suggestions.

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